Fixes#3605 and adds the functionality suggested in PR #7440.
This PR is using a different appraoch that (IMHO) feels cleaner and (even more important) adds support for Windows at the same time.
We have a curtesy function in place allowing you to specify both a
`name` of `ID`. But in order for the graph to be build correctly when
you recreate or taint stuff that other resources depend on, we need to
reference the `ID` and *not* the `name`.
So in order to enforce this and by that help people to not make this
mistake unknowingly, I deprecated all the parameters this allies to and
changed the logic, docs and tests accordingly.
Sander van Harmelen